Unlove

 

How it is about unloving someone whom you once loved by your whole heart ?

Can we fall in love more than a time and still love the person left us . It's actually weird how people say they will love a person till their last breath and then unlove at the same time when they leave . Is leaving love that easy ? Is presence of them necessary to love ?

How love cannot be a forever kind of thing ? Because it is ! Someone said : Love doesn't go anywhere , people do . It is hard to let someone go but what about love , do you let it go with the person as well ? It is not possible ig. 

We just cannot accept things that people are not meant to be together forever and only because people leave , nothing bothers us but our own emptiness . Emptiness which comes by letting things go so easily . If we leave someone , we try leave everything ; memories , love , feelings and those parts that we shared , we try to forget our own selves which is pretty impossible . Forgetting things that doesn't belong to us is somehow acceptable but what about forgetting things that belongs to us .

Maybe falling in love again needs so much of courage , trust but it is the hardest when it comes about unlove . So ,I never try to hate or unlove instead I try to keep the love I have got , some of our parts we shared , gifts , smiles & things that really belongs to me accepting that there are things that don't belong to me . It becomes easier , effortless because love does't go anywhere . 

So , love , until and unless you fall in love again with yourself  or with someone you want to.